Everything I ever wanted to know about BDSM…..

Posted July 15, 2011 by DiDi in Kimber, Randomness, The Dungeon - Misc BDSM posts / 2 Comments

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I learned from Cherise Sinclair and her Club Shadowlands series. Oh, I’ve read plenty of books who touched on the subject, which is what sparked my interest in the first place. But, once I started reading the CS series, I was introduced into a whole world of information and now I’m just down right intrigued, some may say even a little obsessed. Not only are the books well written, educational to those of us not in the KNOW of BDSM, but the heroes are to die for and the heroines are laugh out loud funny–mostly because of their reluctance to submit, and the lovin’ is STEAMY.

Now, I know the series is for entertainment, and Ms. Sinclair has done an outstanding job in that department, but I was amazed at how educated I’ve become on the subject. I do have to admit that I’m more interested in the Dom/Sub relationship as it pertains to bondage, totally giving up that control to another person, complete trust in your partner, that person knowing you better than you know yourself, and the sexual gratification. I am most definitely not intrigued with the extreme pain side of it. I chuckle to myself because I believe all of the heroines in the CS books said the same thing. Hmmm. No, I’m positive– I am not into Extreme Pain.
Well, as much I have learned about BDSM in a very short amount of time, one question keeps popping up in my mind every time I come across a particular type scene, and that is “Can we really come on demand?’ We’ve had some fun throwing it out there and discussing it, but I recently posed the question to the source, my BDSM sexpert , and here’s what she had to say on the subject.

“Coming on command? Oh, it’s real. To me, it seems like there’s two variations. There’s the one where they’re already having sex, she’s actually pretty close, and her Dom’s hard command basically just shoves her over the edge. The other kind is where a sub gets off on command with no stimulation involved, like in a restaurant in the middle of a meal. As far as I know, that takes actual almost Pavlovian training. “

I don’t know about any of you, but I want to learn to do this. I had no idea it was FOR REAL. I just thought it made for good entertainment and discussions. LOL I’d love to hear if any of you have experienced this type of orgasm. Inquiring minds REALLY do want to know!

Happy reading to everyone and if you have not read any of Cherise Sinclair’s books, please go and get one or a few of them today. If you are like me, one will not be enough. I devoured each and every book and couldn’t put them down, like a chain smoker with their cigarettes, I tell ya. I promise, you will not be disappointed.

A special thanks to Cherise and keep those Sexy, Smokin’, Hot books coming (seriously no pun intended)

XOXO

KurvyK

KurvyK gives the Club Shadowland series

Posted July 15, 2011 by DiDi in Kimber, Randomness, The Dungeon - Misc BDSM posts / 2 Comments

2 responses to “Everything I ever wanted to know about BDSM…..”

  1. Cherise Sinclair

    Thank you, Cindy, Annie, Monette,

    LOL, Kurvy K. That sounds like an…interesting…way to start a morning. Why do I envision you dealing out that punch, then ending up, butt up and face down, for a much needed wake-up call.

    Monette, I am *still* wanting and waiting for sequels to Prime Obsession and Eye of the Storm. I swear, girl, if you don’t finish them up, I’ll request Master Sam take his black snake whip and pay you a visit.

    Thank you, Sophie! Y’all, if you haven’t read Sophie Oak’s books, give’em a try. Yummy menage. I keep wandering back and forth between her Bliss and Texas series’.

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